Sun Squares Jupiter

There is a pronounced tendency for one or both of you to expect more of the relationship can be actually delivered. This amounts to a misplaced faith in it that can, if not checked, turn into a disappointment that effectively eclipses any promise that your relationship does actually possess. While insisting on finding a treasure chest you overlook the small casket containing a few gems!

It is better to rein in such titanic aspirations, as well as discovering through straight talking whether or not your expectations actually match.

Sun Trines Saturn

What serves your relationship well in so many respects is a sense of discipline and practicality, and an awareness of how the status quo works. Whether these are qualities brought to the relationship by one or both of you, or by your merely being together, or by something that is imposed by circumstances, you should be well able to deal with the challenges and difficulties of life. This would apply especially to the material world for you have a sort of self-stabilizing mechanism built into your partnership.

For the same reasons you usually adhere to a formal and conventional life-style, and subscribe to traditional standards - or you would make life easier if you used the system as opposed to bucking it. Paradoxically though, it is this very sense of order that can cause you to miss some vital but radical point concerning your relationship itself, or about each other as individual personalities.

Sun Squares Uranus

Another very important dimension to your being together is that one or both of you just has to have the freedom to do as they choose, despite whatever else the relationship is demanding of you or going through. Such a desire for space may or may not have been present in either of your personalities at first, but somehow you bring out the freewheeling rebel in each other.

This is because this major dynamic of your relationship is in aid of making you both more aware of your individual rights and quirks, along with the freedom to express them, and ultimately of the truth of the unique being each of you essentially is. Depending on your respective personalities this can happen sooner or later, in a matter of fact kind of way or all of a sudden out of the blue - and explosively.

Obviously this could all be regarded as unsuitable for a stable and secure relationship, but really this would only be in proportion to how conventional were your expectations, or how insecure and possessive either one of you was. The more you hold each other to how either of you thinks the other should behave, the more the other will refuse to behave in that way.

This is the usual paradox of freedom: grant it and the other won't make a blow for it. Whereas the more controlling or repressive either of you are, the more likelihood there is of a 'bloody revolution'. So obviously trust and a feeling of emotional security would be high on the list of your relationship's assets, one which this aspect doesn't provide, or it would need to be present in, ideally both, your individual personalities.

In many respects this kind of dynamic is more at home in a friendship, as friends do not as a rule hold each other to such tight requirements as an intimate relationship. But if you want it to last, rather than it just being an exciting flash in the pan, then loosening up has to be high on the agenda. Then you would be pleasantly surprised rather than only continually having to deal with one shockwave after another.

Sun Trines Pluto

Whether it is through tortuous ups and downs, or through sheer psychological insight born of deep love, this relationship bears the promise of changing one or both of your lives for the better, making you stronger and more authentic individuals in the process, and hopefully the relationship too.

It is in fact this deep soul connection that you have that enables you to endure and understand the darker passages of your time together. It is as if you are only too capable of penetrating deeply into the heart and soul of one another; and seeing this as a positive thing is what is very important. Feelings of sexual intensity would be the most obvious signs of this, feelings which may last and last, or not, depending on other aspects of your relationship.

Moon Trines Venus

What comes to the rescue in all your emotional interactions is a certain softness that you have between you, and a sentimentality and sensibility that you have in common. Friends and family, and others in general, find it easy to bathe in your pleasingly familiar aura. This talent that you have as a couple for soothing and making people feel good has many uses and can take many positive and endearing forms.

Moon Trines Mars

You do have a very easy and available flow of both physical and emotional energy going on between you, regardless of whatever else is happening. This flow is so natural that you both possibly take it for granted simply because it is has always been there as you work, play and relax, together or separately, with enviable ease. The more aware you are of this healthy balance that you as a couple possess between your feelings and physical energy, the more vibrant and confident you will both feel, about the relationship and each other, enabling you to achieve success in your chosen field or fields of endeavor.

Moon Squares Pluto

You feel intensely for one another, and plunge or soar to the extremes of whatever emotion is prevailing at any given time, be it high or low. The danger of course is where negative emotions - such as jealousy and possessiveness - take hold. This is when you both need to realize that the main dynamic of your relationship - which means what happens most powerfully simply as a result of being with each other - is one which draws to the surface the deeper and more powerful emotions that exist within each of you as individuals, rather like a poultice draws out poison from a wound.

At bottom such emotions stem from a fear of abandonment or of being in someone else's power. So the worst thing either of you can do is, on the one hand, to threaten leaving, or on the other hand, to try to coerce the other into being what you think they should be. What is really going on when this happens is that one who threatens to leave - even non-verbally - is finding the fact that they have been put in touch with their own deepest fears too intense to handle. And trying to control someone is down to the same root reasons.

If your relationship is not to burn itself out in a maelstrom of destructive emotions, then you both have to own and deal with the deeply-seated negative emotions in a way that does not involve the other person - like seeking professional counsel or psychotherapy. There can be an inclination in one or both of you to actually try psychoanalyzing the other, but this would again be a bid to control while at the same time denying one's own issues and projecting them on to the other person.

Moon Sextiles Ascendant

You are able to make your feelings known to one another quite easily - and to others around you also - in a direct and simple way that attracts a relaxed and natural emotional interplay. Your being together facilitates emotional expression which means to say that, in proportion to how much each of you let your feelings be known as individuals, you should both become more emotionally in touch as a result of being involved with one another.

Venus Trines Moon

Fortunately, you have an instinctive ability to satisfy each other's needs and senses. And this emanates outwards with others finding you an attractive and pleasant couple to be with. As a pair you are also accommodating of others, and expect to be equally welcomed yourselves.

Venus Conjuncts Mars

On the face of it, and certainly in the early stages of your relationship, the coupling of 'Love and Desire' appears to be very appealing. In other words, there is a strong sexual attraction between you with affection and romance all thrown in!

The trouble is that wherever either of you seeks love they also find conflict. Feelings of tenderness never seem to have anger or frustration very far away from them. What you both have to do is first recognize that love and desire, soft feelings and hard ones, are all mixed up inside of you both, individually and as a couple. Curiously, and owing to our society's current confusion over these matters, it is this conflict within that makes 'love and desire' both exciting and difficult.

By the same token, it falls to you both to make a greater than average attempt to show your feelings equally of care and desire, of love and sex. If you don't, then the deep-seated wounds and resentments that are surfaced by your being together give rise to feelings that are repellent and disruptive, where at first they were attracting and conjoining.

Venus Trines Jupiter

Happily, there should be plenty of opportunity to satisfy the appetites and predilections that each of you has. This is because you do have a naturally generous disposition toward one another, and life and the world are only too happy to reward this positive quality you possess as a couple. You have a sense of largesse that can attract success and enjoyment in any number of fields - both socially and professionally. Essentially, what you have is a sense of abundance and joy. This can incline you both towards overindulgence in the pleasures of life, but all in all, people find you a pleasure to have in their midst.

Venus Trines Uranus

A great asset you have as a couple is that you are able to grant each other plenty of space, to have social and even more intimate involvements outside of the two of you. This is of course in proportion, or maybe in opposition, to any more possessive or insecure elements in your relationship or individual personalities. The point is that your being together allows, or possibly forces, you to give each other plenty of latitude.

At the very least it is worth experimenting with ways of being in relationship that are outside of the norm for you could both be then pleasantly surprised how it can remove pressures that are there simply because one or both of you is trying to fit the relationship into a mound it doesn't belong in. As a cherry on this cake, others do or would find you stimulating company, possibly in an innovative or artistic way.

Venus Squares Neptune

When all is said and done, your sense of love is highly evolved, or is in the process of evolving to a higher level. This does mean that you are very idealistic as a couple or where your creations are concerned. Seeking the exquisite and blissful can mean many a disillusionment as loved ones - be it one or both of you, or friends or relations - fall from grace, showing themselves to be the mere mortals that they are. Be that as it may, your refined senses, and the lifestyle they give rise to, serve as an inspiration to others.

That you practice, or possibly excel in, some form of artistic or spiritual expression is very likely - or very important, because such is a more suitable means of giving form to your vision of a better world than being merely overly romantic or socially indulgent. In any event, loving each other unconditionally - with all your heart and soul - is the simple recipe and likelihood of success as a couple.

Mars Trines Moon

Your being together creates a great supply of physical and psychic energy for you to draw upon, simply because there is a harmony between your physical and emotional bodies; so just about any object of mutual desire can be attained, which would include making babies. This rather like your relationship is a powerful and well-tuned automobile - but how you drive it and where is another matter!

Mars Conjuncts Venus

If you are both going to satisfy these urges however, it will be necessary for you to consider carefully the sensibilities of each other. Sooner or later, without the willing assent of the one of you, the other's satisfaction will feel rather one-sided, not really satisfying at all, or non-existent. On the other hand though, if either of you fails to assert their own wishes or feelings enough, they will only have themselves to blame when they feel that their better nature has been taken advantage of.

Mars Squares Neptune

All of these qualities concerning your manner of self-assertion and sexual expression are made to go through a process of refinement and alignment with your finer feelings and sensitive spots - or they certainly need to! Otherwise this can mean that whenever one of you are pushing for the wrong thing or for the wrong reason - like an entirely selfish one - then they deplete the other person's energy, or they themselves become depleted or ineffective as the other resists or more likely evades their onslaughts.

Eventually though, their means of evasion could become more treacherous, such as going off, or having a dalliance, with somebody else - or they simply become very disinterested in the physical side of love. But this would be because neither of you had been totally honest about their respective feelings in the first place. And being 'totally honest' necessitates being aware of what your feelings are; be they feelings of desire or feelings of vulnerability.

So unless honesty born of a conscious inquiry into the very nature your relationship and each other is sought after, and preferably a commitment to some kind of sexual discipline, like tantric yoga, is also practiced - both ideally from quite early on - one of you is going to feel led up the garden path and possibly dumped somewhere along the way, while the other will just feel short-changed.

Creative or selfless pursuits, or dancing and water sports, can galvanize you both when all else fails to do so. But this mixture of sexuality and sensitivity which pervades your relationship can prove very undermining, even degenerating, especially if drugs or alcohol are added to the mix.

Jupiter Squares Sun

Any negative traits regarding the nature of your beliefs, enthusiasms, cultural attitudes, or want of faith, as described here, can get in the way of your relationship progressing or developing as it needs to. This can show as one of you wanting to spread their wings while the other does not. In effect though, this is really your relationship making you more aware of what your scope and opportunities are as individuals, and how you can each either encourage or frustrate each other in this respect.

Jupiter Trines Venus

Fortunately, the quality of your respective beliefs and ethics is appealing to each other. This is a fair asset for it means that something about you as a couple bears the promise of happiness and health and better things to come. This is a broad and beautiful streak in your relationship.

Jupiter Conjuncts Uranus

As if to counter the possibility of your becoming too sure or even smug about your relationship, you are occasionally and unexpectedly stormed by someone or something that upsets your idea or model of what you believe your relationship is about. Effectively whatever this 'storm' is forces you to rethink whether, or in what way, you believe in yourselves as a couple.

This is more than likely going to alter the very way in which each of you regard relationships generally, and not just your own in particular. Ultimately it will be realized that your belief in your relationship rests upon how much space you allow each other to follow their own path of development and self-discovery. An unconventional set-up works where a conventional one does not.

Saturn Trines Sun

Because at least one of you has a natural and increasingly conscious sense of discipline, you work through all these issues assiduously, and at a steady pace. Circumstances also seem to confer stability, possibly from people in authority. As long as neither of you is compromised or offended by having to play by their rules, then a firm and established path is set out before you both.

Saturn Conjuncts Pluto

There is a definite weight and inevitability about all these lessons and tests that try the building of your commitment to one another. It is as if the oppressive figures or situations that you both encounter are heavier than average. But when you pass such a test or overcome a formidable obstacle you become far more powerful and authoritative as a couple.

This certainly takes some doing, but then these pressures or adversaries are exactly equal to your own grit and determination to become a solid union. However, the unkind alternative to this can be very divisive when the struggle becomes against each other rather than with what should be seen to be a common enemy.

Uranus Squares Sun

Being with one another forces you to realize that at no cost do either of you want to be deprived of your ego's right to dance in its own light. In other words, relationship commitments and social conventions are all very well, but in the end you see yourselves increasingly as your own rule-makers and rule-breakers.

Such self-interest or even anarchy flies in the face of maintaining a stable bond in the usual sense of the word, as some degree of accountability and predictability is called for.

But unless you are both involved quite closely in some operation or movement that is actually intent on changing in some way the status quo itself, the fate of your relationship is quite likely to be divisive. In any event, you would need to have a quite unique and very open-ended set-up for it to work.

Quite simply, in essence your relationship is more about waking up to who you each are as individuals rather than growing old and grey together - that is unless you are extremely unusual individuals.

Uranus Trines Venus

Because the combination of your personalities is genuinely attracted by the call to freedom, innovation and experimentation where interpersonal relationships are concerned, you automatically attract others who are drawn to these social dimensions and practices as well. Consequently your lifestyle as a couple is likely to be or become unusual and stimulating, unconventional and probably artistic too.

Uranus Conjuncts Jupiter

In addition, it becomes evident that in order for your relationship to develop and grow - and not feel confining or restrictive - that your sense of freedom and awakening has to have some kind of philosophy behind it. This means that the old rule book about relationship and marriage has to be rewritten by you both. So compiling your own unique set of vows would be a good, if not essential, idea.

At base your being together demands an enormous amount of space being granted to one another. The more you can devise a framework or understanding in which this can happen, then the less likely it'll be that space will be imposed upon you in the form of permanent or semi-permanent separation.

Neptune Squares Venus

Your relationship readily finds a means of giving form to your finer feelings and more sophisticated ideas. Together you seek the sublime or the glamorous in the world of art or society. You certainly have all the appearances of being an enchanting, even ideal, couple - but how much of this is illusion or not is down to how much you realize that the sublime leads you forever on, while the glamorous seductively leads you round in circles.

Neptune Squares Mars

Unfortunately there is an impulsive urge in one or both of you to attain some ideal or high more quickly than such can be, if at all. And so this can lead to disappointments that are out of proportion to the reality in hand because they have more to do with desires being at odds with spiritual and emotional considerations.

This is rather like trying to push a river. Unless this is realized and accepted then frustration can be a feature of your relationship, with scenes and hissy fits being the energy-sapping result. Quite simply 'flow with it' has to take precedence over 'go for it'.

Neptune Sextiles Pluto

Such is the state of our cultural environment, issues concerning sensitivity and spiritually can now be addressed through seeking out the practitioners, groups or literature that are now widely available.

Pluto Trines Sun

As a couple you are more than potentially able to reap and express the most positive qualities described in your Pluto Profile and your Relationship Profile as a whole. Something about your being together attracts help or guidance from high places or deep levels, which simply means people or agencies that have the power and ability to assist and guide you.

At times you should feel that the hand of fate itself is directing you both. If that is how you feel - then it is. But if this kind of thing isn't occurring at all, then it is because you haven't noticed it or are not seeing or appreciating what is being offered.

Pluto Squares Moon

Your personal power and influence as a couple, which essentially means your sense of feeling that you are an authentic duo, is checked and complicated by your respective fears of being got close to by another human being. This can amount to a serious game of hide and seek as one part of each of you seeks to reveal the inner emotional truth of themselves and the other, while simultaneously another part lives in fear of that very thing happening.

Sooner or later, you are called upon to confront and free these rich dark feelings once and for all, but you have the free will to resist this for as long as that fear of intimacy reigns - which amounts to one or both of you never being found, to always feeling alone.

Pluto Conjuncts Saturn

In your life together, transformation becomes a necessity, and so does the correct use of power and influence - be it of a financial, psychological or sexual kind. And this means that you must both actually employ the power that you have and not attempt to ignore it and the responsibility that it engenders.

Your duty and lesson is to make a reality of the maxim that power is as good or as bad as the way that it is wielded. And wield it well each of you must, or the darker and more destructive and domineering aspect would descend upon you both.

Pluto Sextiles Neptune

Fortunately, any of the more difficult and intense pressures that can burden your relationship with may be alleviated by consciously exercising compassion towards one another. This is further helped by the culture you both now live in being alive to the presence of these difficulties, should there be any, and what steps can be taken to sort them out.